What care to expect in pregnancy
So you just found out you are pregnant and are wondering what to do next. Congratulations! you are at the start of your fabulous autistic pregnancy journey.
So like any journey you will need to prepare and have a toolkit and some friends you can call on if needed. Awesome, autistic and pregnant! There is a lot to consider and think about so let’s break it down. Change and transitions are always something we need to prepare for and worry and anxiety is ok as you start this adventure. Here we will explore what you can expect.
You are an expert in your own body
Remember, you are an expert in your own body, what makes you feel good and what you may find challenging. Reasonable adjustments can be made to the healthcare environment to support your needs. Pregnancy is a time when you can advocate your needs and the information here will help and guide your journey.
When you first meet the midwife she will ask you questions about your health and wellbeing and then she will help you plan your care pathway. This video explains about the NHS Personalised Care Plan. This is your own document that you can write in to explain your needs and your expectations for pregnancy. Your hospital should give you one to fill in. You can ask for support filling it in if needed.
Here is an example of an NHS Personalised Care Plan
You can also fill out a hospital passport like the one on the National Autistic Society website, this explains your autistic needs to health professionals and offers them advice about autism as well. Hospital Passport
Autistic Girls Network also has a Healthcare Professional Information Leaflet that you can print off and give to your midwife, explaining about autism and how they can best support your needs.
You can choose which hospital you attend and do not have to go to the nearest one. However, think about the practicalities of attending hospital appointments when deciding. You can explore what is available on hospital websites. You can choose to give birth in a hospital, a midwifery-led unit or your own home depending on what is available in your area. Your midwife will guide you through your choices.
The National Clinical Institute for Health and Care Excellence provides guidelines for care in pregnancy and childbirth. You can read them here Organisation and delivery of antenatal care
Personalised Care and Support Planning in Maternity Services
This short animation explains what Personalised Care and Support planning is in maternity services and what women and families can expect.
Here is a summary of what to expect:
Taking time off from work for antenatal appointments
Find out more about rights to time off for antenatal appointments at the GOV.UK page on working when pregnant: your rights
Who can help you advocate for your needs?
Learning disability nurses can assist midwives in making reasonable adjustments so that women with autism are adequately supported during pregnancy.
PALS Patient Advice and Liaison Service at your hospital can offer confidential advice, support and information on health-related matters and liaise with staff on your behalf if needed.
Maternity Voice Partnership (MVP) in your area – MVP’s work with local NHS Trusts to support service users to access and improve local maternity care. Find your local contact: https://nationalmaternityvoices.org.uk/find-an-mvp/
Private Midwife – You can employ a private midwife to support your pregnancy journey.
Private Doula – You can employ a private doula who acts as an advocate and supporter during your pregnancy, birth and in the early days of parenthood. Find a local doula: https://doula.org.uk/about-doulas/
If you need to ask for further support and advice about your care you can ask to speak with the Community Midwifery Manager, Antenatal Clinic Midwifery Manager, Labour Ward Manager or Postnatal Ward Manager as required.
With thanks to Diane Fox, Midwife, researcher and Neurodevelopmental Practitioner and co-Chair of MARG (Maternity Autism Research Group) – a collective of professionals and researchers who are autistic and working to promote awareness of autism in Maternity Services for providing this material.