Philanthropy

We have proved the model works

Autistic Girls Network is the UK’s only national charity dedicated to autistic girls, women and gender-diverse young people, and we are neurodivergent-led at every level. From an online community of over 36,000 members to The Haven, our specialist online school, we reach the young people the system has missed, and we see them speak, learn and lead on their own terms.

We have proved the model works. Philanthropy is what will let us reach the tens of thousands of girls still waiting.

The scale of the problem

80%

of autistic girls are still undiagnosed at 18

290,000

people are waiting for an autism assessment in England (NHS England, June 2026)

13 x

more autistic women likely to die by suicide than non-autistic women (Hirvikoski et al., 2016).

200,000

neurodivergent girls in the UK are estimated to be out of school, undiagnosed or in mental health crisis.

These girls are not “hard to reach”. They are in their bedrooms, exactly where the system left them. We know how to reach them because we do it every day.

If you or someone you love is struggling right now, please don’t carry it alone. You can call Samaritans free on 116 123, day or night, and our community is here for you.

Your gift rebuilds lives like Erin’s

Erin* came to The Haven after mainstream school had become impossible and every other placement had been tried. Her local authority commissioned a place with us when it had run out of options. Two terms later, her mum calls The Haven “a lifesaver” that has had “a massive impact on her wellbeing, self-worth and confidence”. Erin’s own words are simpler still: “thank you so much for the support and a space to feel safe”.
*Name changed to protect her privacy.

Get in touch

When you write to us about philanthropy, you talk directly to our founder.

Cathy Wassell, Founder and CEO

Cathy Wassell, Founder and CEO

I’d be glad to talk through our strategy and impact, and to share the full case for support. I can also introduce you to the team behind the work and share learner and parent feedback from The Haven’s first year.

Charlie Hamilton, Fundraising Lead

Charlie Hamilton, Fundraising Lead

Cathy works in partnership with our Fundraising Lead, Charlie Hamilton, who manages our relationships with trusts, foundations and philanthropists. Charlie’s background spans teaching, autism research at UCL’s Centre for Research in Autism and Education, and national training in neurodivergent-affirming practice; she is also a doctoral researcher at Lancaster University.

How will my gift make an impact?

Rebuild lives directly. Your gift funds the things families cannot get anywhere else: free face-to-face groups where girls who have never had a friend make one, and mentoring built on lived experience from people who have been where they are. It funds places at The Haven, our online school, where young people who have been out of education for months or even years re-engage with learning, often surprisingly fast.

In 2025 we directly supported 667 children, young people and adults. Among the girls in our face-to-face groups, 96 per cent reported feeling happier, 94 per cent felt more positive about being autistic, and 92 per cent said they understood themselves better. We measure our outcomes with The Good Childhood Index, developed by The Children’s Society.

Change the system around them. We train the professionals these girls will meet next: teachers, special educational needs coordinators (SENCOs), clinicians and social workers. We have now trained more than 3,000 staff across more than 200 schools. Our white paper, Autism, Girls and Keeping it All Inside, and our Internal Profile of Autism Checklist are used by clinicians and educational psychologists across the UK. Every professional we train changes the odds for every girl who sits in front of them afterwards.

Build the capacity to scale. All of this is delivered by a core charity team of effectively two full-time staff members, alongside a small, dedicated education team at The Haven, and our work reaches over 5.6 million people a year through our social channels and more than 250,000 website visitors. Demand is not our constraint; capacity is. Philanthropy at this level does not just buy a programme; it builds the infrastructure that lets everything else grow.

You can read more about the evidence and thinking behind our work:

The Sanctuary Network

Our five-year campaign, the Sanctuary Network, will take what we have proved and make it national:

  • From 20 free face-to-face groups to 50, giving near national coverage across the UK
  • The Haven grown to serve more than 200 full-time learners, with Ofsted accreditation secured
  • A complete pathway from age nine to employed adult: community, groups, school, mentoring and supported routes into work

We are looking for founding philanthropic partners to build this with us, with named investment opportunities from £5,000 to £280,000 and recognition for significant gifts. The full case for support is available on request. Get in touch, and I will send it to you personally.

“We catch her at nine, and we don’t let go until she is thriving in work and adult life”

What it costs, and what it saves

For financially minded donors, the case is stark. Supporting a girl through a year in one of our groups costs around £330; £5,000 funds a whole group of 15 for a year. A full-time place at The Haven costs a local authority or school £13,800 a year.

The same girl, unsupported at 14, can cost the NHS around £100,000 for a single inpatient mental health admission, and an independent special school placement averages £62,000 a year, with some over £200,000.

We are the upstream intervention. Every year a girl spends supported, understood and in education is a year the crisis does not happen.

What support costs

£330
One girl, supported for a year

£5,000
15 girls, supported for a year

£13,800
One full-time Haven place for a year

What crisis can cost

£100,000
One NHS inpatient mental health admission

£62,000
Average annual independent special school placement

£200,000+
Some independent special school placements

AGN Circles, and why we support both ends

AGN Circles is the part of our five-year plan we are most excited about, and the part we are least willing to rush.

A Circle will be a local hub doing three things at once. It will be a place autistic young women and adults come for peer support and community, so that growing up does not mean ageing out of everything that helped. It will raise money locally, so that the group in that town is not permanently dependent on a grant decision made somewhere else. And it will build a real relationship with local employers, so that work experience, employment and apprenticeships exist for the young people we have spent years supporting.

That third part is where you might come in, and it is where we intend to do something differently.

Supported at both ends

Most supported employment schemes support the disabled person. They prepare her, coach her, help her through the interview, and then hand her to an employer who has had no preparation at all and is quietly hoping for the best.

Then it goes wrong, and everyone concludes she could not manage the job. Usually she could. What she could not manage was a manager who gave instructions by implication, an open-plan office nobody thought to ask her about, and an induction delivered entirely out loud.

We will support both ends. The young person, because we have known her for years and we understand what she needs. And the employer, because we train organisations for a living and we are good at it. A placement where the employer has been trained is a placement that lasts.

  • For the young person: preparation, a named contact, and someone who knows her already and can advocate if something is not working
  • For the employer: training for the team before she arrives, practical guidance on adjustments, and a person to ring when they are unsure rather than guessing
  • For both: a relationship that continues past the first week, which is where most placements quietly fail

This is what we are building towards, not what we are running today. If you or your organisation wants to help build it rather than wait for it to exist, that is exactly the conversation we want to have.

What it’s like to give with us

We are a small but mighty national charity, and for a philanthropist that is a strength: decisions are quick, the team is close to the work, and you will always know exactly what your gift is doing.

  • A direct relationship. You deal with the founder and the Fundraising Lead, not a fundraising department.
  • Honest reporting. Regular, plain-spoken updates on what your gift has done, including what has been hard.
  • Meet the people behind the work. We do not bring visitors into our groups or The Haven, because our young people need those spaces to feel completely safe. We would love to introduce you to the team and arrange a briefing or workshop on any part of our work. You can also read learner and parent feedback from the first year of The Haven.
  • Recognition on your terms. Naming opportunities exist for significant gifts; equally, we are experienced in working with donors who prefer to remain anonymous.
  • Governance you can trust. We are a registered charity in England and Wales and in Scotland, with a board of seven lived-experience trustees and a clear reserves policy, and our annual accounts are published in full.

Ways you can give

  • A single or multi-year gift. Multi-year commitments are especially powerful for a charity of our size; they let us plan, hire and promise families continuity.
  • Fund a specific piece of work. A new group in your region, a year of mentoring or a named element of the Sanctuary Network.
  • Through a trust, foundation or donor-advised fund. We are experienced in working with family foundations and their grants teams.
  • Corporate giving and partnerships. From donations to staff training partnerships that fund our free family services.
  • A gift in your will. A legacy costs nothing today and helps build the Sanctuary Network for the girls of the future. We can suggest simple wording to share with your solicitor.

UK taxpayers can add Gift Aid, increasing the value of a gift by 25 per cent at no cost to you, and higher rate taxpayers can claim further relief through their tax return.

Contact Cathy Wassell to start the conversation.

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